Saturday 17 May 2014

The Picture of Dorian Gray

There are quotes you like in a book and then there is a book that in itself should be a quote. If a book is ever awarded for having “the most thought provoking quotes”, without any competition, it will be “The Picture of Dorian Gray” that shall receive the honor.  It has to be one of the most engaging, enchanting, confounding books that I have read.

Oscar Wilde was criticized for writing this book and a few passages were banned. Of course, we humans aren't strong enough to resist temptations and add to that a book like this, it had to be banned. It pains me whenever I hear about a book was banned or is being banned. No book should suffer that fate because (in his words) “There is no such thing as a moral or an immoral book.  Books are well written, or badly written. That is all.” That is all.
And this book is well written, immensely well-written.

I thought that I would put my favorite quotes from the book in here. I even tried but then I realized that the result would have in vain as more than half the book being put here would look plainly terrible. I did not have the heart to choose my favorite quotes; all of them are my favorites. And anyway writing them here wouldn't matter much as most of you must have read them somewhere or the else without realizing that they would be part of this enthralling book.

Dorian Gray exists in all of us, in varying degrees. That is the precise reason the book leave you in a daze. Of course, the degradation is more than what one can bear normally. But imagine Dorian being a little moderate in taking pleasure in his vanity and maybe we could relate to him. Feeling guilty/bad about Sibyl or let us put in a little attempt at redemption; Let her not die and we choose a loveless marriage with an extra-marital affair for dear Dorian. Now that would have been bearable.

Perhaps not killing Basil, rather praying with him and asking for forgiveness from God that could have been a way out too. Isn't religion supposed to be the ultimate salvation? He would not be damned and we would have been happy with our illusion of redemption. Whom am I trying to fool here? Oscar Wilde was far more brave and truthful than we could bear. Once you take pleasure in enjoying senses and are ruled by vanity, there is no going back to the monotony of good life. Perhaps, you may forget for a while and try and at being good but it is only a facade and the mask will come off one day. Even our dear Dorian attempted that before his end but the futility of his effort was soon shown to him by Henry.
Going too far for Dorian was never a choice but the only option he had. After all “Redemption is just a mirage”.

However, it is difficult for me to believe that Henry was not poisoned by his own thoughts and led a relatively better life (in terms of morality) than Dorian. After all it was he who actually influenced Dorian and led him astray. How could a devious man like him have done worse things than Dorian. But then I remind myself the picture was Dorian’s and so was the book.

Dear Mr. Oscar Wilde, thank you for making our difficult lives more difficult and of course you have done it very aesthetically.

Remember: Morals maybe subjective but senses are universal.

After a few years, I would want to re-visit the book. Maybe this book is the soul and could depict moral degradation for me. This book would be old and tattered and I would be young and beautiful.

Tuesday 22 April 2014

Love in the time of Cholera- After thoughts!




This book will remain close to my heart forever. It was the first time I had just completed a book and read about the author’s demise. Felt like a personal loss. But the rating would have been still 5 stars had he been alive.

A special thanks to Edith Grossman. Without her, this reading would not have been possible! Such a beautiful masterpiece that you do not even realise it is a work of translation.


I always thought it is the story that matters more than the writing style. Thanks to Gabriel Garcia Marquez, fondly called Gaba, I can no longer believe that. I am glad that I am writing this review after a few days, it has given me enough time to come out of the world where I was an inhabitant since sometime. 

While I was reading the book, I was in a spell and had fallen irrevocably for Florentino Ariza as Gaba wanted despite that all he was. Retrospectively, now that I can think, I am able to find something wrong with him and even despise him for getting a female killed due to his irresponsible behavior or being a pedophile. Sleep with women with mutual agreement is different from taking advantage of someone so young and naive. I did not mind the uncountable affairs that he had, but not these two. But you know that Gaba has won, when I still can’t make myself from stop feeling for Florentino. Why? How? Its beyond reason, maybe that is love.

Taking you through a journey of 50 years, the book beautifully explains the different phases of love.

Let me try and explain in Gaba’s language

The young love
"To him she seemed so beautiful, so seductive, so different from ordinary people, that he could not understand why no one was as disturbed as he by the clicking of her heels on the paving stones, why no one else’s heart was wild with the breeze stirred by the sighs of
her veils, why everyone did not go mad with the movements of her braid, the flight of her hands, the gold of her laughter."


The marital love

“The problem with marriage is that it ends every night after making love, and it must be rebuilt every morning before breakfast.” 

The comfortable love

“It was the time when they loved each other best, without hurry or
excess, when both were most conscious of and grateful for their incredible victories over adversity. Life would still present them with other mortal trials, of course, but that no longer mattered: they were on the other shore.”


Love you feel after the death of your beloved

“She would stop in the middle of whatever she was doing and slap herself on the forehead because she suddenly remembered something she had forgotten to tell him”.
Feeling his presence where he no longer was. 


The love you waited your whole life for

“For her sake he had won fame and fortune without too much concern for his methods, for her sake he had cared for his personal appearance with a rigor that did not seem very manly to other men of his time, and he had waited for this day as no one else could have waited for anything or anyone in this world: without an instant of discouragement”.

The old-age love

"For they had lived together long enough to know that love was always love, anytime and anyplace, but it was more solid the closer it came to death".


I can sum up the review in five words- "Love makes a grandeur delusion". 

Recommended to - Those who love being in love or at least in the idea of being in love.